Swingers Sex Dating Lifestyle: Like it or Not?

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Swingers Sex Dating Lifestyle: Like it or Not?Posted By: Leon Davis

Lifestyle as it is known in many parts of the world has its origin in USA. Hence, lifestyle is a very popular word for swinger sex. This lifestyle is also known as swinging wherein couples indulge in wife swapping or exchanging partners for twosome, threesome, or group sex orgy. Swinging is much looked down upon in the traditional society as it defies the norms of married life set by the conjugal vows governed by our religious ethos.


But the world is changing in many section of the society religion has taken a back seat and so have the societal customs and mores and many people especially the lifestyle seekers and those practicing alternate sex give a heck to what people think. Extremely liberated attitude towards sex is becoming more and more popular everyday and people are breaking the shackles set by the old age puritanical society. Now people do fear to tread they way their instincts guide and willfully experiment with sex in the wildest manner possible. Visit any dating site on the Internet and you will see ever growing number of adult personals ads seeking swinger couple, even single women and men, gay, lesbian and bisexual singles for swinging in various combinations or groups.    


Out activity of gay and lesbians have always been taken as bizarre and unacceptable by the society and hence they are known as queers or outpersonals. They are even now nit acceptable to the society and are looked down upon. The case of swingers is similar though here the sex is between women and men both of opposite sex and hence within the biological norms. But sharing sex in group or wife swapping goes against the conjugal vows or the norms set by the society and the priestly clan. Hence, it appears as horrendous to those traditionalist outside the purview of swinger sex.


Swinging is becoming so popular and prevalent that there are elite and private swinger club where couples go for wife swapping and have sex with each other’s wives either in the same room or in different rooms as per their wishes. Then these clubs and parties also offer group sex in varied female to male ratio. Swinger personals in online adult dating sites are everyday growing of couples interested in swinging. Moreover, swingers claim that this kind of swinging with each other’s consent actually strengthens their marital chords. It should be noted that swinging happens in full knowledge and consent of both wife and husband and is different from cheating. The logic used to justify swinging is that sometimes sexual gratification is not possible between husband and wife for various reasons and indulging in swinging helps fulfill this desire. That is why the swingers say that their marriage improves whence they start swinging. Swinging anyway is not for couples with weak bonds as it can lead to severe jealousy and further damage the bonds.      


What all this simply means that physical desires are respected more or given more weight age than the conjugal vows that state sex only between husband and wife. So a swinger couple who do not believe in conventional marriage norms and yet are happy swinging then for them swinging is justified if sexual gratification coming out of person from outside the marriage is acceptable to both. How ever, this is an extremely mature step and there is no room for uncertain amateur couples who are thinking of entering singing lifestyle. They are bets advised to watch as outsiders in a club or a private house and then when sure, enter to swing.


Motto: Each to their (couple) own way of life as long as it does not harm others (couples).

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