Posted By: Leon Davis
Online dating has changed the world. What was earlier in the closet has come out in wide open and perhaps become more prevalent. Good or Bad? Well it is personal matter. How you use the technology is as per your understanding and not as per any other persons wishes.
There are lot of people on this planet who have a desire for having sex with many different women and men or swinger couples and many do. The point is if your libido or sexual urge is in an uncontrollable state of frenzy for having sex with many then you are going to do it if opportunity prevails. Many men and women especially singles have a deep desire for having sex with different personals, but is it right?
According prevailing morality this kind of relationship is looked down upon in the society where faithfulness is a virtue that deems to deliver long life and fulfilled happiness. But then happiness is a state of mind and if you shake your balls at every female that passes by or thrust your breasts forward at very men you happen to meet then you are in state of fix especially if you are married. For marriage means being faithful to your wife or husband – eternally. But then the desire for multiple sexual relationship is as much in married men as it is in singles. In fact mature people are more experienced in sex dating hence they have a greater predilection for sex with multiple partners the case of swingers is right before us.
However, in modern times morality is changing as thought process, beliefs change due to the change in the social environment, and more and more people are openly seeking multiple sex partners without being sex addicts. Sex addiction is a psychological disease where in a person over indulges in sex beyond a requirement which is normal and healthy these in case of women such people are known as nymphomaniac and men are known as Romeos.
Well if you are going to have multiple sex partners or are into multiple sexual relationships then you must first and foremost be aware of the disease that can inflict you if you do not practice safe sex. HIV and Syphilis are major one. You must use a condom every time you have sex with a person however, trust there may be.
There may be an emotional problem as such relationships are not emotional stable as they cannot be. You cannot have fidelity in multiple relationships, which is obvious, and more ever if you are a married person then your family life falls into jeopardy.
Anyway if you are into multiple sexual relationship, then take these precautions, indulge in safe sex – use a condom always. If your are married woman or man then have a discreet affair as many dating sites offer discreet personals for casual sex or one night stands. This is no string attached sex which is suitable for married people who are wild and adventurous kind.
The eventual outcome is that enjoy your sexual life wisely whichever way you do. For sex is the most wonderful thing which makes our lives meaningful.