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In today’s age of life-threatening sexually uk sex transmitted infections, you have every right to know that your potential girlfriend has a clean bill of health before climbing into bed with her. You’re also entitled to a little reassurance at other points in the relationship, when the need arises. Some will find the idea of asking such questions intimidating, which is understandable, as the recipients of such questions often find them offensive.

Not to worry; asking is far less difficult than you realize, and a little sensitivity can go a long way. The following tips will help you determine when to get tested, and how to ask her to do the same.

New uk sex relationship

Unless you’ve been tested during the last 24 hours, or have been abstinent since your last checkup, it’s a good idea to suggest mutual STI testing when starting a brand new uk sex relationship. This will ensure she doesn’t feel like you’re accusing her of being diseased, and will put the focus on mutual health — as opposed to only safeguarding your own. Tell her you think it might be a good idea if you both drop into your local clinic for some peace of mind. If she recoils in horror at the idea of visiting the clinic together, that’s fine; testing for women is more involved and many prefer using their own gynecologist. Either option is fine, as long as she chooses one of them.

When To Get Tested:: UK SEX Dating Tips

Testing tip: If she flat-out rejects the idea, this could mean she’s afraid of learning the answer, which suggests she’s no stranger to risky behavior. This doesn’t mean she’s infected, but it does mean you’d be wise to use protection until she’s proven otherwise.

Trying to get pregnant

If fatherhood is on the agenda, both you and your woman should be tested for STDs before you start trying — even if you were both tested at the start of your relationship. Why? Because most uk sex transmitted infections have a window of time during which they can slip beneath the radar. In other words, one of you could still be infected, despite your test results having said otherwise. It’s important to note that your results are just as important as hers; you could be carrying an infection she hasn’t yet acquired, but could acquire during pregnancy. This is highly significant, because diseases like syphilis and hepatitis B (blood-borne infections that can be asymptomatic for decades) can be passed from mother to fetus, sometimes resulting in premature delivery or stillbirth.

Testing tip: If she hasn’t already suggested this one herself, approach it from the angle of responsibility. Tell her you know it’s unlikely either of you has anything to pass on to your future child, but you want to ensure the baby’s health at all costs. Your woman will find the suggestion admirable and endearing.

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This entry was posted on Monday, February 8th, 2010 at 5:19 am and is filed under sex, sex dating, Sexy Dating Girls.

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