Casual sex is when two people who barely know or love, serious relationship, have sex for pleasure alone. This practice is often defended by the observation of an agreement and nothing happens. I want to emphasize that “no harm” applies only to direct physical damage, if the broken heart and soul and sexually transmitted diseases are at risk. However, he also said that “no harm” has little impact on the moral significance of this particular action.
The casual sex is bad because it is separated from our physical emotional, and if we are to live integrated, a good life, not be separated.
From a purely physical standpoint, sex is physically close as two people can be. In civil kiss, two people close to the unit is humanly possible. Even physically, there is not nothing. The unique quality of sex is not shared by other forms of consensual pleasure each other like a deck of cards or a massage.
It is therefore difficult to understand why someone would want to spend, in essence, a physical connection to someone I dislike. It makes no sense to save a single transaction for a single person as husband or wife?
The person arguing in favor of casual sex could answer, the spouses are emotionally close and loving relationship is what makes wedding and special relations. And it’s absolutely true! The relationship as a single unit is a self emotionally and mentally.
But mature relationships are not just a feeling, but also physical. Just as every human being has emotions, mind and heart, everyone has a body incarnated soul. Our physical reality is as important as what they are like emotions. Resistant to skin, eyes, brain and most experienced in our lives and the expression of our being. Therefore, the institution does not play with a side effect of our life.
Forms of casual sex activity distinct physical and emotional being of our staff, but this is not possible, because our bodies the essence of who we are. On the contrary, the body defines us as if our feelings are not.
Because our body can not be separated from us and be part of everything we do, we can not ignore the physical aspects and effects of sexuality. It is true that our physical actions do not affect what we are. They, and certainly not sex.
To be fully integrated into the body and mind, feelings and actions must be answered. This access and exclusive to the emotional value of a physical connection to sex. Moreover, a physical connection with sexuality is not well integrated into our global if not identical with the sense of commitment.
This means that to live in authentic, integrated, life, sexuality, must be deep and loving. The question that I tell them is married.
Tags: casual dating, mature dating
This entry was posted on Wednesday, March 2nd, 2011 at 6:57 am and is filed under casual, mature.
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