Strange Sexual Disorders: Adult Dating Tips

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Monday, February 22nd, 2010

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Sexual disorders make for a great read. While the majority of male adult dating sexual disorders we hear about today seem like simple regurgitations of late-night infomercials — impotence, premature ejaculation, and so on — there are still those strange sexual disorders that fly under the radar.

Though we’ve tackled this topic before in Strange Sexual Disorders – Part I, here’s a fresh batch of strange adult dating sexual disorders for you to learn about.

Sexual addiction

What happens: The term “sexual addiction” is a tad controversial and tends to be thrown around carelessly. Typically, it’s used to describe the behavior of a person who has an obsession with sex to the point where it becomes clinically significant. The sex addict will usually resort to risk-taking to get their fix; often progressing to illegal activities, despite that they are rarely ever satisfied. Hypersexuality, the compulsive need for frequent genital stimulation, may also result from this strange sexual disorder.

Strange Sexual Disorders: Adult Dating

What causes it: Causes of sexual addiction are difficult to pinpoint. Some point toward biochemical causes, while others cite social conditioning forces or emotional issues. It’s likely that a variety of factors come into play. Getting specific, hypersexuality is sometimes associated with bipolar disorder and recent head trauma.

Treatment: Bring on the therapists! Treatment is complex and multifaceted. First off, other addictions need to be identified. Sex addicts then usually turn to counseling, and self- and group-help techniques. Cognitive-behavioral therapy and medications may be helpful in curbing the sex addict’s need to act out.

Priapism

What happens: Named after Priapus, the Greek god of fertility, priapism is indeed a strange and horrific sexual disorder. Think of it as a permanent binge on Viagra — the erect penis simply does not return to a flaccid state, even when there is no stimulation. Despite the comedic appeal, priapism is a medical emergency and a strange sexual disorder.

What causes it: Priaprism is likely influenced by both neurological and vascular factors. Other medical conditions, such as sickle-cell anemia, leukemia and spinal chord trauma, contribute (priapism has been observed in hanging victims). It may also be caused by medications, most notably those used for the treatment of erectile dysfunction (ironic?).

Treatment: Guys, if you have an erection lasting for more than four hours, go to the emergency department immediately. No, this is not something to brag about. Serious complications can occur, including the gangrenous loss of the penis. Blood will need to be drawn from the penis, and decongestants may be injected. Surgery is a last resort.

Dyspareunia

What happens: Sexual intercourse should be a joyful experience, but for some, the experience can be painful: dyspareunia. While this affliction is more common in women, there are still a few men who suffer from this strange sexual disorder.

What causes it: Dyspareunia can be caused by psychological or physical mechanisms, although in women, and especially in men, physical causes dominate. The type of pain depends on the cause. Burning, itching or sharp pain following ejaculation may be caused by infection. Peyronie’s disease, which causes bending of the penis, can make sex painful, as can common penile skin disorders. If the vagina is too tight or if a stitch is left following birth, penile pain during sex may result as well. Lastly, don’t discount the psychological: Guilt, anger or embarrassment can influence pain levels during or after sex.

Treatment: Because the causes are so diverse, treatment varies. If unsure, see a doctor. Don’t hesitate; why spoil one of life’s great treasures?

Paraphilias

What happens: Put simply, paraphilias are the stuff that all true sexual fetishes and fantasies are made of. More specifically, a paraphilia involves a six-month period of recurrent intense, sexually arousing fantasies or sexual urges involving a specific act, depending on the paraphilia. Voyeurism, exhibitionism, zoophilia, pedophilia, and necrophilia are all examples. In fact, the list is never-ending.

What causes them: Let the confusion continue: There are many theories out there regarding the cause of paraphilias, including pscyhoanalytical, biological and sociobological theories; however, none are really conclusive and, thus, the subject still requires more research.

Treatment: As is the case with many mental illness, psychotherapy, medication, sex education, and therapy are all viable treatment options depending on the paraphilia. In some cases, however, treatment isn’t necessary: If it ain’t hurtin’ nobody.

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